Questions on Attention and Care

October 1, 2012
I attended We Are Many: Reflections on Movement Strategy from Occupation to Liberation, a panel discussion about a book of the same title moderated by Mike McGuire, with co-editor Kate Khatib. The panel featured contributors Lester Spence, John Duda, and Ryan Harvey as well as one other speaker whose name I did not catch. The book is a collection of reflections on the Occupy Movement. I have not had the opportunity to pick up the book yet, but the discussion that this panel sparked gave rise to several questions that I feel the need to reflect on.

What do you do when people aren't paying attention? This came up while discussing police repression and how it is often violent acts by the police that bring media attention to movements such as Occupy. It is clear that police repression is never a positive thing so how can movements make people pay attention without violent abuses of power occurring. It seems to me that even if an answer to this question is found that what is necessary goes beyond just paying attention. What one really wants if one is involved with activism or woking toward any kind of change in the world is both attention and care. How does one make people care? I followed this line of questioning then to not just being about attention or care, but also action. Once you have people's attention and they care about what you are working toward how do you encourage them to take action to move toward this change, both individually and by leveraging resources to be able to create real world change on a larger scale.

This led me to the question, can you make people care if they don't know you? This is what drives my own work. I believe that most people are doing the best that they can most of the time, but because of the way the world is still divided and separated, there exists divisions between people that are both historical and institutionalized and that are often extremely difficult cross. People are not interacting with others that are different from themselves because of the social, economic and other boundaries that are constructed culturally, thus preventing any deep and meaningful interactions between people of difference. Human beings have a great capacity for empathy and understanding, but the opportunity needs to be created so that there is space for this capacity to be utilized. The panel also touched on this idea of capacity - how we can take stock of our own capacity and how we can use the capacity of all populations when organizing. Someone spoke of successful organizing being about tapping into the capacity that the population you are working with has because all people have ability. It is in this idea of capacity that the potential for connection is rooted. 

This is why healing is such an important part of any work toward change. People are hurt by the divisions and ways that power is abused. In order to reach a greater capacity for empathy and thus action, one must address, heal and support others'  healing as well. Only then, can people realistically to work at their greatest capacity and realize their greatest potential. Then they will acknowledge the values that are strong within them and those that are weak and be able to act from a place of confidence when confronting another who may have different strengths and weaknesses. It is only through this self-reflection and a willingness to see oneself, others and the world honestly that allows for the ability to have the capacity to work together to address inequity and move toward change.

 

About People

September 3, 2012
It has been too long since my last post and many things have built up to write about. Here is an attempt to make sense of my recent seemingly interconnected thoughts and ideas. I have been reading The Answer to How is Yes by Peter Block and came across an article titled Why Employee Well-Being Matters. Both of these readings seem to support the idea that work really is about people and that when people are happy (oneself included) then good, meaningful and engaging work happens. It is in the ...
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Being Open to Baltimore

August 4, 2012
I thought a lot about the similarities and differences between New York and Baltimore when I first moved here. Last week, after meeting someone who recently relocated from New York who had a very different reaction to the new city than I did, I am left considering Baltimore again. Reflecting on the place, people, communities, myself and the transformation I have experienced while being here I write this post.

The person that I met did not like Baltimore at all. The friends I was with said that...
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Creative Support

July 29, 2012
I know that I have written in the past about support being a crucial ingredient for successful community arts projects. Today I find myself again thinking about support and how it is key in so much more.

In considering what makes people choose creative over destructive decisions, I realize the role of support. Whether it is in becoming one's true self, creating beautiful objects and experiences or finding creative solutions to problems, it is having someone to listen, be there for you and acce...
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Realizing Potential

July 26, 2012
Thinking about potential today, what encourages people to reach their full potential, how to structure accountability so that people will be active in realizing their potential and what things discourage potential. It somehow reminds me of the 11 people who came together in my graduate program. There was something special in the little over a year I spent with the others in my class. We somehow became coherent as a group, working separately, but connectedly toward social justice and realizing...
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Beasts of the Southern Wild

July 15, 2012
The Beasts of the Southern Wild was not the movie I expected it to be. I thought it would be an adventure film, full of wonder and challenge and incredibly unrealistic accomplishments by a young girl that would leave viewers feeling that their life had been affirmed. It was not just a fluff feel good film however, it was a statement, a commentary, a critical look at the world as it is and I am not at all disappointed by this. Leaving the movie theater, my feelings were intense and I had a fie...
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Evaluating Youth Success - You Know It When You See It

July 13, 2012
Tonight I attended the OSI Baltimore event How One Program is Keeping Kids in the Community and Out of the Justice System. The event was held at Taharka Brothers Ice Cream Factory. LaMar Davis, Director of The Choice Program was speaking with several of his students. It was a nice event. Food was provided by the Dogwood Restaurant, there was ice cream, of course and a good crowd. 

The beginning of the evening allowed folks to mingle and interact and there were lots of great people to talk to. ...
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Clarity, Refusal, Irony, and Obstinacy

June 18, 2012
"Rules of Engagement" a piece written by Albert Camus in 1939 is featured in the July 2012 issue of Harper's Magazine. The words at the time of writing were censored by the French authorities and were published for the first time in Le Monde this March. It is uncanny how accurate the words still seem today.

The piece is about freedom of the press and how necessary it is to winning a war. It also addresses the limits of freedom, but the fact that these limits must be "freely acknowledged, not i...
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A Structure for Hope

June 2, 2012

Struggling to make sense of life. Why we are here. Why our paths cross, why sometimes this is joyful and sometimes sad. Figuring out how to cause the least amount of pain possible. Not causing pain being impossible. We say hello and goodbye. How are you? As long as we care, are we are doing all right? Or is it more about being careful? Not about being fearful, but proceeding with care.

All this has something to do with a quote that I have had in mind often as of late from the book Be...


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Dialogue with the Author - Leadership and Self-Deception

May 22, 2012
After I posted about Leadership and Self-Deception I was contacted by a representative of The Arbinger Institute, the author of the book. We had the following dialogue via e-mail. If you have any thoughts about the book, the ability of addressing people as people or power dynamics, please comment and add to the dialogue!

 
Mike Rener of the Arbinger Institute wrote the following:

As you are right that we have a power within us, I would just flip it and in that we have the power to act on a choic...


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